Save a tree and save yourself a lot of headaches! Put up an online RSVP page. With this simple form - which you can change to have any questions on it that you like - you can ask for your guests' food preferences and collect any other information that will help you, as hosts, be able to better organize. I believe if you ask nicely, Liz might even let you put your child's voice on there giving a welcome message. We didn't think of that, but now I just did!
This page is for my daughter, Julia. The page and the wonderful portrait were both created (one-stop shopping!) by artist Liz Oliner.
To see the page "in person" go to
http://olinergraphics.com/jgrsvp/jgbatmit.php
To contact Liz, use the link below. ALSO KEEP IN MIND - Liz's portraits can be used on invitations and to set up a store on Cafe Press with Tshirts and other items featuring your child. She also makes killer sign-in boards.